feat: fix missing `email`, `phone` identities when updating password

[hf]

Adds an email or phone identity (if user has email or phone number, or both) when adding/updating a password to the user, and the identities are not there.

Fixes #2085

[fukuli053]

Hi, I noticed this PR is still marked as draft.

This change is very important for our project, and we’re currently blocked without it. Could you let me know if there are any plans to move it forward toward merging?

@hf

[Gbuomprisco]

Hi @hf - sorry for the nudge, this fix would be really good as right now we're unable to display the correct number of the connected identities