Provide disableFilter and customFilter options

[dylanplural]

It's required in our product to provide our own filter method (using a fuzzy match) or disable filtering completely in certain cases which are both currently unsupported.

Not 100% sure the provided PR will work, but if not, something similar would be greatly appreciated.

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