Build PyTorch >=1.9 with OpenSSL 1.1.1 headers on Linux

[pbelevich]

To release PyTorch with TLS_TCP Gloo transport which is dynamically loaded during runtime we need to build PT with OpenSSL 1.1.1 headers available during build time. The problem is that some of our Linux CI environments have only OpenSSL 1.0.2 which is not compatible with Gloo TLS_TCP transport.

Also we need some checks for PyTorch Linux release binaries that they were actually built with OpenSSL headers but not linked statically or dynamically with OpenSSL

[seemethere]

Is there a package available for CentOS that has OpenSSL 1.1.1?