more safe defaults for norecursedirs

[RonnyPfannschmidt]

#1978 exposed that some norecurse directories have a name that is very sane to use outside of a project root

this issue is pretty tricky to debug

we should evaluate more strict evaluation of those and allowing folder names like "build" and "dist" inside normal python packages

[4sfaloth]

I just bumped into this issue after some relatively considerable time waste. I would suggest one of the below

• not ignoring anything by default
• still load tests from ignored directories and show them as skipped in the test report
• more explicitly logging when any directory is ignored

[Newbytee]

Ditto, this was very confusing to debug.

[The-Compiler]

Can you please elaborate a bit on what exactly was the problem in your case? Was it build/ as well as outlined in #1978?

[Newbytee]

Yes, precisely that. For context, I'm working on a project which includes functionality for building other software, so naturally I put the tests for that in a directory named build to match the name of the directory that contains the implementation code.