update meta map guidelines for reference file inputs

[ramprasadn]

As discussed in the nf-core maintainers meeting, I have updated the guidelines for creating new modules to add a meta map to channel definitions that carry reference file inputs.

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[maxulysse]

@ramprasadn there are some conflicts. If you could solve them that would be fabulous, and we could finally merge that one