License, can this software be used on a clothing site?
I understand this is a Creative Commons Attribution-NonCommercial-ShareAlike 4.0 International license.
Can this software be used on a clothing website for people to virtually try on the clothes before they buy it?
The software itself is not being sold for money, but the clothes are.
You answered your own question. The clothes are being sold for money. This is a commercial use. Clicking on the Attribution-NonCommercial-ShareAlike 4.0 International license detail will give you all the details, you can also google it for articles that describe better the use cases:
commercial purposes — A commercial use is one primarily intended for commercial advantage or monetary compensation.
https://github.com/levihsu/OOTDiffusion/issues/74