sqlx-postgres: Bump etcetera to 0.10.0

[miniduikboot]

This bumps the underlying version of windows-sys used by this crate.

I've only compile tested this by crosscompiling from Linux.

Does your PR solve an issue?

No

Is this a breaking change?

Yes, but a workaround for users is available

MSRV increases to 1.81.0, while sqlx-postgres 0.8.5 has an MSRV of 1.75.0

Users can pin home to version 0.5.9 or older 1.70.0 if home is pinned to 0.5.9 or older, which would solve the issue.

Alternatives are:

• Bumping to etcetera 0.9.0 which has an MSRV of 1.70.0
• Merging this after 3821, which increases MSRV to 1.85.0, removing this concern