add meta flag to load

[mike0sv]

[mike0sv]

@aguschin @madhur-tandon I did this a while ago. Do we need this WDYT?

[aguschin]

@omesser do you think we need this? We are 50/50. We have load_meta(...) that's going to be the same as load(..., as_meta=True)

[omesser]

Generally speaking I think we shouldn't have 2 ways to do the same thing. So either load_meta() OR load(..., as_meta=True) no need for both, unless some specific restrictions require this.

Some questions to give me background:

1. Would the user be interested in interacting with the MlemObject directly? what are the benefits?
2. Why is "MlemObject" called "meta" in user facing flags/methods and not mlem_object (so: load_mlem_object, as_mlem_object)?
3. If there's an existing load_meta() - why isn't load() using it today (duplicated logic?)

[mike0sv]

closing as outdated