refactor: Use CommandLineToArgvW equivalents to parse args line

[fuweichin]

The goal of this change is to parse nginx configure arguments which can be get by nginx -V.

TODO This PR isn't ready to be merged to the master branch directly, I hope someone checkout the commit, update the tests and merge the changes. I'm using Visual Studio 2022, so some old targets (like .net45,.netstandard1.6) may not be covered.

BREAKING CHANGE: quote with single quotes are not supported, comes double quote escaping and backslash escaping.