wasm: fix that shutdown callback is not registered to lifetime_notifier

[botengyao]

Commit Message: fix the issue that shutdown callback is not registered to lifetime_notifier Additional Description: Risk Level: low Testing: unit test Docs Changes: Release Notes: Fixes: #35882

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Caused by: https://github.com/envoyproxy/envoy/pull/36688 was opened by botengyao.

see: more, trace.

[botengyao]

/assign @mpwarres

[botengyao]

cc @yanavlasov

[botengyao]

/wait

for CI

[botengyao]

/retest

[botengyao]

/assign @yanavlasov

for final pass, thanks!

[botengyao]

ping @yanavlasov, thanks!