Update (almost) all of the dependencies

[seriouslysean]

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Please check the following

• [ ] Do the tests still pass? (see Run the Tests)
• [ ] Is the code formatted properly? (see Linting (Formatting))
• For New Features:
  • [ ] Have tests been added to cover any new features or fixes?
  • [ ] Has the documentation been updated accordingly?

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[seriouslysean]

@itsalaidbacklife I can't get the sails tests to pass and could use some help figuring them out. Everything else is working though. 🎉

[seriouslysean]

It was the Vitest upgrade, ugh.

@itsalaidbacklife I'm going to take a separate look at the Vitest issue, but we need to be able to upgrade it. As it stands, the paralellization is wreaking havoc on it.

So for now, we can focus on these siloed updates.