deps.edn: add support for alias types other than -A

[hoxu]

As deps.edn gets more complex, it's useful to have aliases that contain not only :extra-deps, but also options that are incompatible with other aliases (:main-opts for example).

It would be useful to be able to specify "Aliases to enable by default" for other types than -A, for example -R.

https://cursive-ide.com/userguide/deps.html