chore: update to rules_go v0.55.0

[dougthor42]

https://github.com/bazel-contrib/rules_go/releases/tag/v0.55.0 was just released. I'm hoping that https://github.com/bazel-contrib/rules_go/pull/4298 included in that release will fix the root issue that caused us to migrate to dougthor42/go-tree-sitter in https://github.com/bazel-contrib/rules_python/pull/2496.

IF this works, then we'll be able to migrate back to smacker/go-tree-sitter and then @jbedard can focus on migrating to the official tree-sitter repos in #2952.

See also:

• https://github.com/bazel-contrib/rules_python/issues/2630#issuecomment-2923678515 which describes some of the potentially breaking changes in the recent rules_go versions
• https://github.com/bazel-contrib/bazel-gazelle/issues/2059 which describes the issue in gazelle