[enhancement](rewrite) add OrToIn rule && fix expr clone problems

[Henry2SS]

Proposed changes

Issue Number: close #12871

Problem summary

1. support Or to In rewrite rule
2. fix Expr clone problems. It should create a new object, or it will always be shallow-copy.

Checklist(Required)

1. Does it affect the original behavior:
   • [ ] Yes
   • [x] No
   • [ ] I don't know
2. Has unit tests been added:
   • [x] Yes
   • [ ] No
   • [ ] No Need
3. Has document been added or modified:
   • [ ] Yes
   • [ ] No
   • [x] No Need
4. Does it need to update dependencies:
   • [ ] Yes
   • [x] No
5. Are there any changes that cannot be rolled back:
   • [ ] Yes (If Yes, please explain WHY)
   • [x] No

Further comments

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[Henry2SS]

1. fe unit-tests passed locally.
2. compiled and manually tested function passed

test results:

[github-actions[bot]]

PR approved by at least one committer and no changes requested.

[github-actions[bot]]

PR approved by anyone and no changes requested.

[hello-stephen]

TeamCity pipeline, clickbench performance test result: the sum of best hot time: 34.65 seconds load time: 638 seconds storage size: 17123113066 Bytes https://doris-community-test-1308700295.cos.ap-hongkong.myqcloud.com/tmp/20221227102546_clickbench_pr_69344.html

[github-actions[bot]]

PR approved by at least one committer and no changes requested.

[wangshuo128]

It seems this PR introduced an unstable test, please see http://43.132.222.7:8111/viewLog.html?buildId=69682&buildTypeId=Doris_Doris_FeUt cc @caiconghui @morrySnow