Add node*-esm @tsconfig/bases, add @tsconfig/node18

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Related: https://github.com/tsconfig/bases/issues/76

Augment @tsconfig/bases logic. Detect TS >= 4.5. If TS>=4.5, use @tsconfig/node12-esm, node14-esm, or node16-esm.

• Add 3x deps
• Add logic to detect TS version
• Add tests
  • What should these tests do? Attempt to both require() and import() within a CJS file? To prove that both require() and dynamic import() are emitted?
• update docs
  • mention new @tsconfigs

Also add @tsconfig/node18