chore: update precommit

[Panaetius]

Adds some more pre-commit checks, updates revisions of checks, properly formats file

New checks are:

• check filename case for python files (MyPythonFile.py is invalid)
• ignore helmcharts in check-yaml (it's not proper yaml usually because of templating)
• check no big files are committed to git
• check TOML file formatting
• check not >>>> HEAD style git merge markers are committed
• check not breakpoint() style debug statements are committed
• add some more options for mypy checks
• use yesqa to warn about unneeded # noqa comments
• use bandit to run security checks
• use poetry check to check pyproject.toml