Add fuse3

[jfantinhardesty]

What type of Pull Request is this? (check all applicable)

• [x] Refactor
• [x] Feature
• [ ] Bug Fix
• [ ] Optimization
• [ ] Documentation Update

Describe your changes in brief

This change makes fuse3 the default version of fuse for linux. It uses zig to link to libfuse3 for all linux deployments. Many of the fuse3 changes come directly from upstream.

Checklist

• [x] Tested locally
• [ ] Added new dependencies
• [ ] Updated documentation
• [ ] Added tests

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[Dabnsky]

This is a pretty big one and I think this is one worth doing a group overview on. I could benefit from it as well as learning more about fuse3 and how it's being added here. I'm curious why libfuse2 has a windows build and libfuse has linux for example

[jfantinhardesty]

Closing for alternative solution using winfsp #426