Update runtime (nodejs20) and dependencies

[danbaechtold]

This PR upgrades the firestore-auth-claims extension to use nodejs 20, newest dependencies and the modular SDK (v1).

Closes #145

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[danbaechtold]

Please merge, thanks

[Skwerl]

Can this please be merged?